{"id":12,"date":"2016-04-25T08:14:50","date_gmt":"2016-04-25T08:14:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=12"},"modified":"2024-03-22T19:08:15","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T18:08:15","slug":"jak-na-komplimenty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=12","title":{"rendered":"Jak na komplimenty"},"content":{"rendered":"

Stalo se mi, \u017ee ne\u017e jsem se p\u0159iv\u00edtal s \u017eenou, kterou jsem doprov\u00e1zel na galave\u010der, dom\u00e1hala se v p\u0159edstihu komplimentu ke sv\u00e9mu outfitu slovy: \u201e\u017de mi to moc slu\u0161\u00ed??\u201c<\/em> Jak tedy na komplimenty?<\/p>\n

\u201eVych\u00e1zejte z toho, \u017ee kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena a p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fd mu\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou moc dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee nepat\u0159\u00ed mezi obludy. V minulosti to sly\u0161eli u\u017e mockr\u00e1t a mockr\u00e1t to v budoucnu je\u0161t\u011b usly\u0161\u00ed. Komplimentem ohledn\u011b hlubok\u00fdch o\u010d\u00ed a velkolep\u00fdch biceps\u016f je sice pot\u011b\u0161\u00edte, ale rozhodn\u011b nijak zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 nezaujmete. Sna\u017ete se v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b odli\u0161it a\u00a0naj\u00edt na nich ty charakteristiky, kter\u00e9 jsou m\u00e9n\u011b n\u00e1padn\u00e9 ne\u017e ko\u0161\u00ed\u010dky podprsenky velikosti E.\u201c<\/em>[1]<\/a><\/p>\n

Lichotka<\/strong> je \u010dasto od up\u0159\u00edmnosti opro\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd vodop\u00e1d slov, jejich\u017e c\u00edlem je z\u00edskat u p\u0159\u00edjemce p\u0159\u00edze\u0148:<\/p>\n

\u201ePan\u00ed starostko, m\u00e1te skvostn\u00e9 kotn\u00edky\u2026 Kdy podep\u00ed\u0161eme tu kupn\u00ed smlouvu?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Naproti tomu je kompliment<\/strong> up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fdm zhodnocen\u00edm, za kter\u00fdm se neschov\u00e1v\u00e1 vykalkulovan\u00fd z\u00e1m\u011br:<\/p>\n

\u201eMoc V\u00e1m to slu\u0161\u00ed, pane kolego. Prozra\u010fte, kde jste koupil tu rafinovanou kravatu s prou\u017eky.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Pochlebov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong> pat\u0159\u00ed k neup\u0159\u00edmn\u00fdm lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed kupuj\u00ed ve velk\u00e9m kbel\u00edky medu, aby jej mohli vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed mal\u00ed\u0159skou \u0161t\u011btkou mazat jin\u00fdm kolem \u00fast.<\/p>\n

Nesna\u017ete se ze sv\u00e9ho prot\u011bj\u0161ku lichotku vyt\u00e1hnout, jinak se V\u00e1m to vymst\u00ed. Nen\u00ed nic nevhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho, ne\u017e \u017eena, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ijde od kade\u0159n\u00edka a u\u017e ve dve\u0159\u00edch se dom\u00e1h\u00e1 od sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela komplimentu se slovy:<\/p>\n

\u201eTak co? Jak moc<\/strong> mi to slu\u0161\u00ed?!\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Jak slo\u017eit kompliment?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0158\u00edkejte pravdu \u2013 nevym\u00fd\u0161lejte si (nelezte nikomu do nej\u0161lechetn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla). Bu\u010fte origin\u00e1ln\u00ed, pochvalte n\u011bco, \u010deho si ostatn\u00ed nev\u0161imnou.<\/p>\n

Nikdy nelicho\u0165te s vidinou vlastn\u00edho prosp\u011bchu. V\u00edte, \u017ee pot\u0159ebujete pomoci s\u00a0\u00fakolem, tak kolegovi pochv\u00e1l\u00edte pono\u017eky? Absolutn\u011b ne!<\/p>\n

Jak p\u0159ijmout kompliment?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Va\u017ete si ka\u017ed\u00e9 pochvaly. Neshazujte ji, nezpochyb\u0148ujte ji, neha\u0148te to, co bylo pochv\u00e1leno. Dlouho byste se pak nemuseli komplimentu do\u010dkat. Pokud V\u00e1m n\u011bkdo \u0159ekne:<\/p>\n

\u201eTen \u0161\u00e1tek je moc hezk\u00fd\u2026 Slu\u0161\u00ed ti\u2026\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

nedevalvujte jej slovy:<\/p>\n

\u201eTenhle p\u0159edpotopn\u00ed \u0161\u00e1tek?? To je stra\u0161nej kus \u2013 m\u00e1m ho po babi\u010dce. Ale nic jin\u00e9ho jsem r\u00e1no ve sk\u0159\u00edni nena\u0161la.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

proto\u017ee t\u00edm d\u00e1v\u00e1te hodnot\u00edc\u00edmu najevo, \u017ee m\u00e1 \u0161patn\u00fd vkus.<\/p>\n

Nesna\u017ete se o v\u00fdlevy nespokojenosti, lhostejnosti nebo \u00fatok:<\/p>\n

\u201eHezk\u00fd vlasy? Nech\u00e1pu! Tenhle t\u00fdden mi na hlav\u011b v\u016fbec nic nedr\u017e\u00ed a p\u0159ipad\u00e1m si jako zmokl\u00e1 slepice.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201e\u00c1le, to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te jenom tak. Tohle u\u017e jsem v \u017eivot\u011b sly\u0161ela tolikr\u00e1t, \u017ee m\u011b to ani nep\u0159ekvapuje.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201eTo mysl\u00edte v\u00e1\u017en\u011b? Ur\u010dit\u011b si d\u011bl\u00e1te legraci. Nev\u011b\u0159\u00edm V\u00e1m!\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Komplimenty se p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed, ale nevracej\u00ed. Kdy\u017e V\u00e1m n\u011bkdo zalichot\u00ed, usm\u011bjte se a pod\u011bkujte. Pak pokra\u010dujte v\u00a0dosavadn\u00ed \u010dinnosti \u010di konverzaci.<\/p>\n

Humorn\u00fd, ale ne zcela na \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b pou\u017eiteln\u00fd kompliment se sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm podtextem:<\/p>\n

\u201eSle\u010dno, m\u00e1te moc kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 \u0161aty. Skv\u011ble by se vyj\u00edmaly na podlaze m\u00e9 lo\u017enice\u2026\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> Inspirace: BRIDGES, John. Jak b\u00fdt dokonal\u00fd gentleman: nad\u010dasov\u00fd pr\u016fvodce spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm<\/em>. Praha: Pragma, c2011. ISBN 978-80-7349-266-3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Stalo se mi, \u017ee ne\u017e jsem se p\u0159iv\u00edtal s \u017eenou, kterou jsem doprov\u00e1zel na galave\u010der, dom\u00e1hala se v p\u0159edstihu komplimentu ke sv\u00e9mu outfitu slovy: \u201e\u017de mi to moc slu\u0161\u00ed??\u201c Jak tedy na komplimenty? \u201eVych\u00e1zejte z toho, \u017ee kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena a p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fd mu\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou moc dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee nepat\u0159\u00ed mezi obludy. V minulosti to sly\u0161eli u\u017e…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ze-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2167,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12\/revisions\/2167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}