{"id":186,"date":"2016-05-29T10:34:53","date_gmt":"2016-05-29T09:34:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=186"},"modified":"2016-05-29T10:34:53","modified_gmt":"2016-05-29T09:34:53","slug":"leto-je-tady","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=186","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e9to je tady\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026a s\u00a0n\u00edm i vysok\u00e9 teploty, vedra k\u00a0zalknut\u00ed, kdy se v\u0161ichni vid\u00edme na pl\u00e1\u017ei nebo v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 hosp\u016fdce. Realita je v\u0161ak takov\u00e1, \u017ee tr\u00e1v\u00edme parn\u00e9 dny cestov\u00e1n\u00edm tramvaj\u00ed, pobytem v\u00a0uzav\u0159en\u00fdch budov\u00e1ch a\u00a0na rozp\u00e1len\u00fdch ulic\u00edch. P\u0159ipravil jsem proto pro sv\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1ky v\u00a0semin\u00e1\u0159\u00edch nov\u00e9 a u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 cvi\u010den\u00ed \u2013 jak taktn\u011b a p\u0159itom \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b upozornit kamar\u00e1da (kolegu, nedej bo\u017ee nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00e9ho) na zanedbanou hygienu, nepou\u017eit\u00ed deodorantu \u010di parf\u00e9mu a s\u00a0t\u00edm spojen\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. V\u0161ichni se p\u0159i tomto praktick\u00e9m delik\u00e1tn\u00edm cvi\u010den\u00ed nejen pobavili, ale tak\u00e9 dozv\u011bd\u011bli, jak\u00e1 jsou nejlep\u0161\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed prek\u00e9rn\u00ed situace.<\/p>\n<p>Jak tedy na to? Jist\u011b jste n\u011bkdy tak\u00e9 st\u00e1li p\u0159ed touto ot\u00e1zkou. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm bez negativn\u00edch emoc\u00ed, i kdyby \u0161lo o na\u0161eho dobr\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele, nebo\u0165 i on si zaslou\u017e\u00ed taktn\u00ed v\u00fdtku. Tedy nepou\u017e\u00edvejme expresivn\u00ed (citov\u011b zabarven\u00e1) slova, naopak v\u0161e podejme klidn\u011b a neutr\u00e1ln\u011b, nejl\u00e9pe formou ot\u00e1zky:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Vyzkou\u0161el jsi u\u017e ten parf\u00e9m, kter\u00fd jsem ti dala k sv\u00e1tku?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>m\u00edsto<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Smrd\u00ed\u0161 jako tcho\u0159, d\u011blej se sebou n\u011bco\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Diskr\u00e9tnost je pak samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed, rozhodn\u011b by m\u011blo v\u017edy j\u00edt o rozhovor mezi \u010dty\u0159ma o\u010dima. M\u016f\u017eeme se pochopiteln\u011b setkat s\u00a0negativn\u00ed reakc\u00ed, ka\u017ed\u00fd z\u00a0n\u00e1s m\u00e1 nastaveny hygienick\u00e9 standardy jinak, ale zcela jist\u011b se nebojme tento probl\u00e9m \u0159e\u0161it. Hor\u0161\u00ed situace ji\u017e nast\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159i n\u00e1hodn\u00e9m setk\u00e1n\u00ed se zap\u00e1chaj\u00edc\u00edm\u00a0\u010dlov\u011bkem, nap\u0159. v\u00a0MHD nebo p\u0159i jednor\u00e1zov\u00e9m jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Zde mnoho nezm\u016f\u017eeme a\u00a0nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 ne\u017e se obrnit trp\u011blivost\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0ji\u017en\u00edch st\u00e1tech jsou b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 tak\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, kter\u00e1 u n\u00e1s zat\u00edm skoro v\u016fbec nevyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me. Ital\u0161t\u00ed p\u00e1nov\u00e9 nos\u00edc\u00ed obleky i v\u00a0tamn\u00edch letn\u00edch vedrech si aplikuj\u00ed do podpa\u017e\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u00ed, k\u00a0tomu vyr\u00e1b\u011bn\u00fd tampon, jeho\u017e \u00fa\u010delem je odv\u00e1d\u011bt pot a neutralizovat z\u00e1pach. Funguje velmi \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b. Z\u00e1v\u011brem si je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ipome\u0148me jednu fr\u00e1zi z\u00a0\u017eensko-mu\u017esk\u00e9ho slovn\u00edku:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jsi tak mu\u017en\u00fd. = Pot\u0159ebuje\u0161 se oholit a p\u00e1chne\u0161 potem.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Karel St\u0159elec, ze semin\u00e1\u0159e <strong>Etiketa pro \u017e\u00e1ky II. stupn\u011b Z\u0160 aneb co s\u00a0chleb\u00ed\u010dkem spadl\u00fdm na zem<\/strong> (publikov\u00e1no v Nev\u0161edn\u00edku)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026a s\u00a0n\u00edm i vysok\u00e9 teploty, vedra k\u00a0zalknut\u00ed, kdy se v\u0161ichni vid\u00edme na pl\u00e1\u017ei nebo v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 hosp\u016fdce. Realita je v\u0161ak takov\u00e1, \u017ee tr\u00e1v\u00edme parn\u00e9 dny cestov\u00e1n\u00edm tramvaj\u00ed, pobytem v\u00a0uzav\u0159en\u00fdch budov\u00e1ch a\u00a0na rozp\u00e1len\u00fdch ulic\u00edch. P\u0159ipravil jsem proto pro sv\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1ky v\u00a0semin\u00e1\u0159\u00edch nov\u00e9 a u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 cvi\u010den\u00ed \u2013 jak taktn\u011b a p\u0159itom \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b upozornit kamar\u00e1da (kolegu, nedej bo\u017ee nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00e9ho)&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-z-prace"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=186"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":187,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186\/revisions\/187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}