{"id":2256,"date":"2024-05-31T17:08:41","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T16:08:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2256"},"modified":"2024-06-05T15:10:18","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T14:10:18","slug":"odchazeni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2256","title":{"rendered":"Odch\u00e1zen\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=1258\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kdy\u017e odch\u00e1zel Radim Uzel<\/a>, se kter\u00fdm jsem spolupracoval spousty let, nechal si zavolat biskupa c\u00edrkve husitsk\u00e9 a na\u0159\u00eddil mu, aby na poh\u0159bu&nbsp;<strong>\u0159ekl p\u00e1r vtip\u016f, aby rozesm\u00e1l p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9. <\/strong>Radim byl v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd by se rozdal pro druh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e ho na na\u0161ich besed\u00e1ch ptali, co nejrad\u011bji d\u011bl\u00e1 ve voln\u00e9m \u010dase, tak se sm\u00edchem odpov\u00eddal: <em>\u201eJsem ve v\u011bku, kdy m\u011b na pr\u00e1ci nejv\u00edc t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e ji d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd. A tak jsem si na verandu po\u0159\u00eddil houpac\u00ed k\u0159eslo a na zahradu automatickou seka\u010dku na tr\u00e1vu a d\u00edv\u00e1m se, jak pracuje\u2026\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nikdy jsem ho neza\u017eil, aby odm\u00edtl n\u011b\u010d\u00ed ot\u00e1zku, aby nezodpov\u011bd\u011bl sebezapeklit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dotaz, aby odm\u00edtl n\u011bkomu spole\u010dn\u00e9 selfie\u2026 Kdy\u017e ode\u0161el do nebe, vrhlo se na n\u011bj p\u00e1r sup\u016f a hezky zatepla ho tepali, \u017ee pr\u00fd schvaluje sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00fatoky na \u017eeny. P\u0159itom jedin\u00e9, co kdy na besed\u00e1ch \u0159ekl, \u017ee kdy\u017e za\u010d\u00ednal jako l\u00e9ka\u0159 v&nbsp;nemocnici, tak popl\u00e1c\u00e1n\u00ed sest\u0159i\u010dky po zadku bylo t\u00edm, co utu\u017eovalo vztahy. \u0160lo o 70. l\u00e9ta minul\u00e9ho stolet\u00ed \u2013 ne o 20. l\u00e9ta toho nov\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jsem r\u00e1d, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina m\u00fdch klient\u016f vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na tohoto v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka s&nbsp;nostalgi\u00ed, s&nbsp;\u00fasm\u011bvem na rtu, s&nbsp;hezkou vzpom\u00ednkou\u2026 Ostatn\u011b pokochat se m\u016f\u017eete <a href=\"https:\/\/www.akademie-vzdelavani.cz\/videogalerie\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">videem z&nbsp;jedn\u00e9 z&nbsp;na\u0161ich besed<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Nem\u00e9n\u011b v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e1 byla i moje mamka. Narodila se v&nbsp;z\u00e1\u0159\u00ed 1949 a dnes zem\u0159ela. P\u0159ed n\u011bkolika m\u00e1lo dny si m\u011b nechala zavolat do&nbsp;hospice, aby je\u0161t\u011b stihla vz\u00edt do n\u00e1ru\u010de sv\u00e9ho jedin\u00e9ho, 6t\u00fddenn\u00edho vnuka a \u2026 v&nbsp;klidu ode\u0161la. Byla stejn\u011b v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e1 jako Radim Uzel \u2013 alespo\u0148 pro m\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po m\u00e9 promoci jsme se na 15 let odlou\u010dili. Necht\u011bla o mn\u011b sly\u0161et, necht\u011bla m\u011b vid\u011bt. Po cca 7 letech tohoto 15let\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed jsem j\u00ed poslal dopis, ve kter\u00e9m jsem se j\u00ed omluvil za to, \u017ee jsem nebyl v\u017edy dobr\u00fdm synem, a odpustil j\u00ed, \u017ee ne v\u017edy byla dobrou matkou. Trvalo j\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edch 8 let, ne\u017e p\u0159i\u0161la na to, \u017ee <strong>\u017eivot je p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kr\u00e1tk\u00fd, ne\u017e abychom ho tr\u00e1vili h\u00e1dkami.<\/strong> Ozvala se mi s&nbsp;t\u00edm, \u017ee je ve 3. st\u00e1diu jedn\u00e9 z\u00e1ke\u0159n\u00e9 nemoci a \u017ee um\u00edr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V&nbsp;\u017eivot\u011b pro m\u011b ud\u011blala jedinou dobrou v\u011bc. Neb\u00fdt j\u00ed, nebyl bych t\u00edm, k\u00fdm jsem. Bila se za m\u011b, kdy\u017e jsem se na prvn\u00ed dobrou nedostal na obchodn\u00ed akademii. St\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kola m\u011b nasm\u011brovala k&nbsp;m\u00e9 odbornosti a ta m\u011b dostala k&nbsp;zalo\u017een\u00ed firmy a k psan\u00ed knih. Krom\u011b t\u00e9to jedin\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti mi v\u0161ak mamka nikdy nepomohla, kde\u017eto m\u00fdm sourozenc\u016fm pom\u00e1hala se v\u0161\u00edm: se studiem, s&nbsp;prac\u00ed, slou\u017eila radou, p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed, pen\u011bzi, \u2026 Kdy\u017e jsem se j\u00ed po letech zeptal, pro\u010d mi nikdy nepomohla, \u0159ekla: <em>\u201eTys to nepot\u0159eboval\u2026 Ty ses v\u017edy dok\u00e1zal o sebe postarat s\u00e1m\u2026 ale tv\u00ed sourozenci by to bez m\u00e9 pomoci nezvl\u00e1dli\u2026\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e mi v&nbsp;m\u00fdch 3 letech zem\u0159el otec, nic to se mnou neud\u011blalo\u2026 nepamatuji si jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnost a skon. Ale jsem hrd\u00fd, \u017ee jsem m\u011bl mo\u017enost b\u00fdt synem sv\u00e9 matky. Jsem r\u00e1d, \u017ee jsme se udob\u0159ili. Jsem r\u00e1d, \u017ee jsme se stihli rozlou\u010dit. Vzpom\u00ednejte na ni s&nbsp;l\u00e1skou a \u00fasm\u011bvem na rtu. Ona si to zaslou\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Va\u017ete si lid\u00ed kolem sebe\u2026 Pom\u00e1hejte jim\u2026 Neur\u00e1\u017eejte se pro malichernosti\u2026 U\u017e\u00edvejte si spole\u010dn\u00fdch okam\u017eik\u016f, dokud jsou tady s n\u00e1mi\u2026<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3-1024x768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaa-3.jpeg 1293w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"998\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276-998x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276-998x1024.jpeg 998w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276-292x300.jpeg 292w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276-768x788.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2276.jpeg 1248w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 998px) 100vw, 998px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kdy\u017e odch\u00e1zel Radim Uzel, se kter\u00fdm jsem spolupracoval spousty let, nechal si zavolat biskupa c\u00edrkve husitsk\u00e9 a na\u0159\u00eddil mu, aby na poh\u0159bu&nbsp;\u0159ekl p\u00e1r vtip\u016f, aby rozesm\u00e1l p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9. Radim byl v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd by se rozdal pro druh\u00e9. Kdy\u017e ho na na\u0161ich besed\u00e1ch ptali, co nejrad\u011bji d\u011bl\u00e1 ve voln\u00e9m \u010dase, tak se sm\u00edchem odpov\u00eddal: \u201eJsem ve&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ze-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2256"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2271,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2256\/revisions\/2271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}