{"id":2586,"date":"2025-04-01T08:52:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-01T07:52:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2586"},"modified":"2025-04-01T10:13:49","modified_gmt":"2025-04-01T09:13:49","slug":"ucitele-ucitelky-a-nevdecni-rodicove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2586","title":{"rendered":"U\u010ditel\u00e9, u\u010ditelky \u2026 a nevd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed rodi\u010dov\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do 1. t\u0159\u00eddy jsem nastupoval v\u00a0roce 1984. Za\u017eil jsem od u\u010ditel\u016f facky, tah\u00e1n\u00ed za u\u0161i, h\u00e1zen\u00ed k\u0159\u00eddou, dvojku z chov\u00e1n\u00ed, smy\u0161len\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky do \u017e\u00e1kovsk\u00e9 jen za to, \u017ee m\u00ed rodi\u010dov\u00e9 nebyli ve stran\u011b\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A p\u0159esto m\u011b <em>trochu<\/em> mrz\u00ed, \u017ee ta doba je pry\u010d. Za n\u00e1s bychom si toti\u017e nedovolili \u0159\u00edci u\u010diteli do o\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee je <em>debil,<\/em> co\u017e nen\u00ed v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b neobvykl\u00e9. Nedovolili bychom si po n\u011bm hodit mokrou houbou nebo kru\u017e\u00edtkem, co\u017e se stalo m\u00e9 kolegyni. Za n\u00e1s \u2013 kdy\u017e jsme dostali p\u011btku \u2013 doma n\u00e1s <em>p\u011bkn\u011b<\/em> se\u0159vali \u2013 dneska se\u0159ve rodi\u010d u\u010ditele, \u017ee si to v\u016fbec dovolil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spolu s\u00a011m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00edm prckem vychov\u00e1v\u00e1me 3 holky v\u00a0pubert\u011b (10, 14, 16 let). Maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 n\u00e1lady, sv\u00e9 postoje, sv\u00e9 obl\u00edben\u00e9 u\u010ditele, ale tak\u00e9 ty neobl\u00edben\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed sni\u017euj\u00ed zn\u00e1mku t\u0159eba jen za pou\u017eit\u00ed slova \u201e\u0161upl\u00edk\u201c ve slohov\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci. (Hned jsem b\u011b\u017eel pro pravidla \u010desk\u00e9ho pravopisu, co je \u0161patn\u011b na slov\u011b \u201e\u0161upl\u00edk\u201c.) A a\u010dkoli n\u011bkdy doma \u0159eknou o sv\u00e9m u\u010diteli, \u017ee je <em>marn\u00fd,<\/em> tak se u\u010ditel\u016f zast\u00e1v\u00e1me, proto\u017ee to oni jsou odborn\u00edky ve sv\u00e9 aprobaci \u2013 ne \u017e\u00e1k. Ve \u0161kole plat\u00ed pravidla u\u010ditele definovan\u00e1 ve v\u00fduce. A a\u010dkoli se mnoh\u00fdm d\u011btem zdaj\u00ed ne v\u017edy smyslupln\u00e1, mus\u00ed je ct\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>U\u010ditelstv\u00ed je presti\u017en\u00ed povol\u00e1n\u00ed,<\/strong> kter\u00e9 v\u0161ak nen\u00ed v\u017edy jako presti\u017en\u00ed vn\u00edm\u00e1no. Ale uv\u011bdomme si \u2013 my dosp\u011bl\u00ed \u2013 zdali bychom byli tam, kde jsme, a d\u011blali to, co n\u00e1s bav\u00ed, nebylo-li by na\u0161ich u\u010ditel\u016f!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U\u010ditel nen\u00ed jen ten, kdo \u201eu\u010d\u00ed\u201c. Je to pr\u016fvodce, mentor, inspir\u00e1tor. U\u010ditel je \u010dasto prvn\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00fd (mimo rodinu), kter\u00fd d\u00edt\u011b bere v\u00e1\u017en\u011b, kdo mu naslouch\u00e1, kdo mu ukazuje, \u017ee m\u00e1 cenu se sna\u017eit, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let a pt\u00e1t se. <strong>U\u010ditel je tv\u016frce budoucnosti \u2014 doslova.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U\u010ditel<strong> formuje charakter<\/strong> \u2013 pom\u00e1h\u00e1 d\u011btem rozv\u00edjet hodnoty jako respekt, vytrvalost, zodpov\u011bdnost nebo empatie. <strong>Otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e ke sv\u011btu<\/strong> \u2013 ukazuje, \u017ee sv\u011bt je velk\u00e9 m\u00edsto pln\u00e9 ot\u00e1zek, na kter\u00e9 m\u00e1 smysl hledat odpov\u011bdi. <strong>Podporuje potenci\u00e1l<\/strong> \u2013 kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b sly\u0161\u00ed \u201ezkus to\u201c, \u201ev\u011b\u0159\u00edm ti\u201c, \u201etohle jsi zvl\u00e1dl skv\u011ble\u201c, m\u011bn\u00ed to jeho \u017eivotn\u00ed trajektorii. <strong>Stav\u00ed z\u00e1klady spole\u010dnosti<\/strong> \u2013 kvalita vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a t\u00edm i kvalita spole\u010dnosti stoj\u00ed a pad\u00e1 s t\u00edm, kdo stoj\u00ed p\u0159ed t\u0159\u00eddou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pro\u010d jde o jedno z nejpresti\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edch povol\u00e1n\u00ed? <\/strong>Proto\u017ee u\u010ditel je multiplik\u00e1tor. Vliv jednoho dobr\u00e9ho u\u010ditele se \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed na des\u00edtky, stovky, tis\u00edce \u017eivot\u016f \u2013 a to \u010dasto nav\u017edy. V tomhle m\u00e1 u\u010ditel nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed s\u00edlu \u2013 zas\u00e9v\u00e1 sem\u00ednka, kter\u00e1 jednou zm\u011bn\u00ed sv\u011bt. Presti\u017e tohoto povol\u00e1n\u00ed by m\u011bla j\u00edt tak\u00e9 ruku v\u00a0ruce se zaslou\u017eenou odm\u011bnou \u2013 verb\u00e1ln\u00ed, pen\u011b\u017en\u00ed, spole\u010denskou, \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><br><strong>Va\u017ete si sv\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f\u2026 <\/strong><strong>I kdy\u017e vychov\u00e1vat by m\u011bli p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm rodi\u010de, \u010dasto jsou to pr\u00e1v\u011b u\u010ditel\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Pod\u011blte se v koment\u00e1\u0159\u00edch o svou zku\u0161enost se sv\u00fdmi u\u010diteli z d\u011btstv\u00ed, s u\u010diteli sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, &#8230; <br>Tak\u00e9 jste si vybrali sv\u016fj dal\u0161\u00ed obor podle toho, jak moc V\u00e1s nadchl V\u00e1\u0161 u\u010ditel svou odbornost\u00ed? <br>V m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b tomu rozhodn\u011b tak bylo&#8230; na\u0161e t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed s aprobac\u00ed \u010desk\u00fd a polsk\u00fd jazyk m\u011b tot\u00e1ln\u011b uchv\u00e1tila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do 1. t\u0159\u00eddy jsem nastupoval v\u00a0roce 1984. Za\u017eil jsem od u\u010ditel\u016f facky, tah\u00e1n\u00ed za u\u0161i, h\u00e1zen\u00ed k\u0159\u00eddou, dvojku z chov\u00e1n\u00ed, smy\u0161len\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky do \u017e\u00e1kovsk\u00e9 jen za to, \u017ee m\u00ed rodi\u010dov\u00e9 nebyli ve stran\u011b\u2026 A p\u0159esto m\u011b trochu mrz\u00ed, \u017ee ta doba je pry\u010d. Za n\u00e1s bychom si toti\u017e nedovolili \u0159\u00edci u\u010diteli do o\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee je&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2586","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ze-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2586","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2586"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2586\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2601,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2586\/revisions\/2601"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2586"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2586"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2586"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}