{"id":2621,"date":"2025-06-25T09:11:59","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T08:11:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2621"},"modified":"2025-06-25T09:24:00","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T08:24:00","slug":"pul-roku-do-konce-zivota","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=2621","title":{"rendered":"P\u016fl roku do konce \u017eivota"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kdy\u017e m\u016fj kamar\u00e1d Petr vyslechl zdrcuj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159edpov\u011b\u010f, sesypal se jako dome\u010dek z pi\u0161kot\u016f. Prospal t\u0159i dny, probre\u010del t\u0159i noci a pak se zastavil, pod\u00edval k nebi, nadechl se a uv\u011bdomil si, jak moc pro n\u011bj v\u0161echno kolem znamen\u00e1. Lidi. V\u016fn\u011b. Sv\u011btlo (z)r\u00e1na. Zvuk sm\u00edchu. I ticho. A pak? Pak za\u010dal \u017e\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. \u017dil v p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd multitasking.<\/strong> Kdy\u017e pil \u010daj, c\u00edtil teplo v dlan\u00edch. Kdy\u017e \u0161el bosky po louce, c\u00edtil ka\u017ed\u00e9 st\u00e9blo.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. P\u0159estal \u017e\u00edt prac\u00ed a honit se za pen\u011bzi. <\/strong>Za\u010dal \u017e\u00edt pro okam\u017eiky a pracovat pro radost.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Obj\u00edmal v\u00edc.<\/strong> Rodinu, p\u0159\u00e1tele, stromy. Prost\u011b cokoliv, co d\u00e1v\u00e1 pocit spojen\u00ed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Jedl v\u011btrn\u00edky, i kdy\u017e jsou nezdrav\u00e9.<\/strong> A za\u010dal p\u00edt whisky, i kdy\u017e mu nechutnala. Proto\u017ee pro\u010d ne? \ud83d\ude0a<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Odpustil. Sob\u011b i druh\u00fdm. <\/strong>Proto\u017ee pro\u010d odch\u00e1zet se zbyte\u010dn\u00fdm hn\u011bvem? To, co jej t\u00ed\u017eilo roky, pustil jako batoh do alpsk\u00e9 propasti. A doufal, \u017ee i ostatn\u00ed odpust\u00ed jemu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  6. Psal dopisy. <\/strong>T\u011bm, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1 r\u00e1d, t\u011bm, kter\u00fdm t\u0159eba nikdy ne\u0159ekl \u201epromi\u0148\u201c nebo \u201ed\u011bkuji\u201c. Necht\u011bl, aby po n\u011bm zbylo ticho, ale n\u011bco srde\u010dn\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  7. Cestoval. <\/strong>Ne do dalek\u00fdch zem\u00ed. Sp\u00ed\u0161 tam, kde byl \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd. Na m\u00edsta, kter\u00e1 v n\u011bm n\u011bco zanechala. I kdy\u017e to byl jen rybn\u00edk z d\u011btstv\u00ed nebo lavi\u010dka v parku.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  8. Sepsal, co se nau\u010dil.<\/strong> O sv\u011bt\u011b, o lidech, o l\u00e1sce. Ne jako moudra, sp\u00ed\u0161 jako vzkaz pro toho, kdo bude cht\u00edt tohle \u010d\u00edst.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  9. Sna\u017eil se b\u00fdt ka\u017ed\u00fd den vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fd.<\/strong> I za ten posledn\u00ed, kter\u00fd v dohledn\u00e9 dob\u011b p\u0159ijde.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  10. A \u00fapln\u011b na konci\u2026<\/strong> p\u0159\u00e1l si b\u00fdt n\u011bkde, kde to von\u00ed po tr\u00e1v\u011b, kde zp\u00edvaj\u00ed pt\u00e1ci, kde nen\u00ed s\u00e1m.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Tu p\u0159edpov\u011b\u010f si vyslechl p\u0159ed mnoh\u00fdmi lety a \u2013 ona se nenaplnila.  Do\u0161lo k zvratu a uzdravil se. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b neb\u00fdt t\u00e9 vidiny konce, nep\u0159estav\u011bl by sv\u016fj \u017eivot od z\u00e1klad\u016f a kdo v\u00ed, kde by te\u010f byl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pro\u010d o n\u011bm p\u00ed\u0161u?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Na sv\u00e9m semin\u00e1\u0159i Jak se odli\u0161it a b\u00fdt zapamatovateln\u00fd<\/strong> se pt\u00e1m \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk\u016f, co by (u)d\u011blali jinak \u2013 v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci, doma, ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b \u2013 kdyby zjistili, \u017ee jim zb\u00fdv\u00e1 posledn\u00edch 6 m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f \u017eivota.<\/strong> Je to velmi siln\u00fd okam\u017eik dne, kdy se poslucha\u010d zastav\u00ed a za\u010dne p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let. Vezmou do ruky propisku a za\u010dnou si ps\u00e1t. Vypadnou z\u00a0t\u00e9 my\u0161lenkov\u00e9 rutiny typu \u201edopsat rozhodnut\u00ed, odeslat e-mail, koupit rohl\u00edky, \u2026\u201c a fakt se zamysl\u00ed, co by zm\u011bnili. A najednou sly\u0161\u00edte, jak na povrch vyplouvaj\u00ed v\u0161echna ta v\u00a0hloubi skryt\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed: usm\u00ed\u0159ila bych se s\u00a0tchyn\u00ed, dostav\u011bl bych d\u011btem ten dome\u010dek na strom\u011b, kter\u00fd je 8 let rozestav\u011bn\u00fd, dokon\u010dil bych svou knihu, nav\u0161t\u00edvil bych New York, po kter\u00e9m tou\u017e\u00edm cel\u00fd \u017eivot, nechal bych si ud\u011blat tetov\u00e1n\u00ed, \u2026<\/em> A kdy\u017e takhle sep\u00ed\u0161ou na pap\u00edr v\u0161e, co by ud\u011blali, tak se jich pt\u00e1m: A co V\u00e1m br\u00e1n\u00ed ud\u011blat to hned te\u010f? <\/em>A v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b se dostav\u00ed takov\u00fd ten \u201eaha moment\u201c, kdy si \u0159eknou, \u017ee ten t\u00fdpek v\u00a0saku m\u00e1 asi pravdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kdy\u017e mi Petr p\u0159ed lety \u0159ekl onu progn\u00f3zu a za\u010dal \u017e\u00edt, za\u010dal jsem \u017e\u00edt taky: koupil jsem si tucet v\u011btrn\u00edk\u016f, l\u00e1hev Chateauneuf du Pape, o kter\u00e9 zp\u00edv\u00e1 Michal Tu\u010dn\u00fd<\/a>, sepsal si sv\u016fj seznam posledn\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed a za\u010dal kone\u010dn\u011b \u017e\u00edt: najal si tren\u00e9ra na\u00a0pole dance (gymnastika na ty\u010di), oslovil mistra republiky v\u00a0kule\u010dn\u00edku, aby m\u011b u\u010dil, zlezl ty nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed ferraty v\u00a0Alp\u00e1ch, zhubnul 22 kg za 2 m\u011bs\u00edce, sp\u00e1chal road-trip po USA, \u2026, a nakonec se nast\u011bhoval do domova pro seniory, abych zjistil, po \u010dem senio\u0159i tou\u017e\u00ed a co by ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b ud\u011blali jinak, kdyby mohli. Jejich \u017eivotn\u00ed moudrost mi otev\u0159ela o\u010di i u\u0161i, potkal jsem osudovou l\u00e1sku, na star\u00e1 kolena se o\u017eenil, zplodil potomka, koupil d\u016fm, p\u0159est\u011bhoval se z metropolitn\u00edho Brna na vesnici, k narozk\u00e1m dostal r\u00fd\u010d (bez n\u00e1vodu k pou\u017eit\u00ed) a m\u016fj \u017eivot se oto\u010dil o 720\u00b0 k lep\u0161\u00edmu :-)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Co byste Vy ud\u011blali jinak, kdybyste dnes zjistili, \u017ee V\u00e1m zb\u00fdv\u00e1 6 m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f \u017eivota?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vlastn\u011b si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee kdybychom si tuhle ot\u00e1zku kladli \u010dast\u011bji, mo\u017en\u00e1 bychom v\u00edc \u017eili podle toho, co je opravdu d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Ne podle toho, co od n\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 sv\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A v\u00edte co? Co kdyby dne\u0161ek byl jedn\u00edm z t\u011bch posledn\u00edch 180 dn\u016f? Jedn\u00edm z t\u011bch, kter\u00e9 by st\u00e1ly za to v tom posledn\u00edm obdob\u00ed na\u0161eho \u017eivota? Co kdybychom ho tak zkusili pro\u017e\u00edt? Za\u017e\u00edt n\u011bco, po \u010dem dlouho tou\u017e\u00edme, napsat zpr\u00e1vu n\u011bkomu, koho jsme dlouho nevid\u011bli, obejmout ty nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed\u2026<\/strong> Proto\u017ee \u2013 i kdy\u017e p\u00ed\u0161eme o smrti \u2013 tohle cel\u00e9, ka\u017ed\u00e1 ta aktivita je vlastn\u011b oslava \u017eivota \u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Kdy\u017e m\u016fj kamar\u00e1d Petr vyslechl zdrcuj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159edpov\u011b\u010f, sesypal se jako dome\u010dek z pi\u0161kot\u016f. Prospal t\u0159i dny, probre\u010del t\u0159i noci a pak se zastavil, pod\u00edval k nebi, nadechl se a uv\u011bdomil si, jak moc pro n\u011bj v\u0161echno kolem znamen\u00e1. Lidi. V\u016fn\u011b. Sv\u011btlo (z)r\u00e1na. Zvuk sm\u00edchu. I ticho. A pak? Pak za\u010dal \u017e\u00edt. Tu p\u0159edpov\u011b\u010f si vyslechl p\u0159ed mnoh\u00fdmi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ze-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2621","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2621"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2621\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2624,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2621\/revisions\/2624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2621"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2621"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2621"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}