{"id":388,"date":"2019-09-15T12:54:14","date_gmt":"2019-09-15T11:54:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=388"},"modified":"2019-10-13T17:39:27","modified_gmt":"2019-10-13T16:39:27","slug":"ocekavani-ve-vztazich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/?p=388","title":{"rendered":"O\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Odli\u0161n\u00fdm o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu mu\u017ee a \u017eeny se zab\u00fdval n\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159edn\u00ed psycholog prof. Stanislav Kratochv\u00edl. Ty v\u00fdzna\u010dn\u00e9 pohlavn\u00ed rozd\u00edly pak shrnul do v\u00fdmluvn\u00fdch a vtipn\u00fdch zkratek, <\/strong>kter\u00e9 dnes interpretuje MUDr. Radim Uzel na na\u0161ich semin\u00e1\u0159\u00edch:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po \u010dem tou\u017e\u00ed ve vztahu \u017eeny?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

POPO \u2013 po<\/strong>sed\u011bt a po<\/strong>pov\u00eddat: To je pr\u00e1v\u011b ta nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chvilka, kdy\u017e se spole\u010dn\u011b partne\u0159i posad\u00ed a za\u010dne se kecat\u2026 Tedy kec\u00e1 hlavn\u011b \u017eena. Sv\u011btlo tlumen\u011b sv\u00edt\u00ed, v kamnech prask\u00e1 ohe\u0148 a mu\u017e naslouch\u00e1. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

DUPO \u2013 du<\/strong>\u0161evn\u00ed po<\/strong>rozum\u011bn\u00ed: Mu\u017e\nnaslouch\u00e1? No, \u010dast\u011bji vlastn\u011b nenaslouch\u00e1. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 jenom Jo, jo. M\u00e1\u0161 pravdu.<\/em> nebo Ano,\nje to tak.<\/em> A p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed si o n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m. A te\u010f p\u0159ijde od \u017eeny kontroln\u00ed\not\u00e1zka: A co jsem pr\u00e1v\u011b \u0159\u00edkala?<\/em> A on\nnev\u00ed. Tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed se zmaten\u011b. Bylo sice POPO, ale nebylo DUPO. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

VYPO \u2013 vy<\/strong>c\u00edtit, co \u017eena po<\/strong>t\u0159ebuje:\nM\u00e1lokter\u00e1 \u017eena hovo\u0159\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo. Ne\u0159ekne: Z\u00edtra\nm\u00e1me v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed svatby, b\u011b\u017e a kup kv\u011btinu!<\/em> \u0158ekne jenom, \u017ee se n\u011bco bl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a \u017ee\nby se n\u011bco m\u011blo koupit. A ten blbec se mus\u00ed s\u00e1m dovt\u00edpit. A v\u011bt\u0161inou se\nnedovt\u00edp\u00ed a na v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed zapomene. A hned je ohe\u0148 na st\u0159e\u0161e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

VYCE \u2013 vy<\/strong>jad\u0159ovat l\u00e1sku ce<\/strong>l\u00fdm \u017eivotem: \u017dena pot\u0159ebuje c\u00edtit, \u017ee mu\u017e pro ni alespo\u0148 n\u011bkdy d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco nejen proto, \u017ee je to t\u0159eba, ale i proto, \u017ee ji m\u00e1 r\u00e1d. P\u0159inesen\u00fd dar by pak m\u011bl b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edmo \u00fam\u011brn\u00fd jeho m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00edmu p\u0159\u00edjmu. Ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eena m\u00e1 v hlav\u011b kalkula\u010dku, kter\u00e1 spo\u010d\u00edt\u00e1, \u017ee perlov\u00fd n\u00e1hrdeln\u00edk od milion\u00e1\u0159e m\u00e1 stejnou hodnotu jako kyti\u010dka fialek od nezam\u011bstnan\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po \u010dem tou\u017e\u00ed ve vztahu mu\u017ei?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

OSTA \u2013 o<\/strong>bdiv st\u00e1<\/strong>le: Tat\u00ednku, tak jako ty to by nevymyslel nikdo l\u00e9pe! Tak \u0161ikovn\u00e9 ruce nem\u00e1 nikdo v cel\u00e9m Schengenu. Kam na ty v\u00fdborn\u00e9 n\u00e1pady chod\u00ed\u0161? Tak odv\u00e1\u017en\u011b jsi hovo\u0159il se sv\u00fdm \u0161\u00e9fem? Takov\u00e9ho hrdinu aby pohledal!<\/em> V\u00fdkony jist\u011b nejsou tak skv\u011bl\u00e9, ale pochvala je zadarmo a \u00fa\u010del spln\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NESTA \u2013 ne<\/strong>zat\u011b\u017eovat sta<\/strong>rostmi: Kape kohoutek v koupeln\u011b! Nesv\u00edt\u00ed\nsv\u011btlo v p\u0159eds\u00edni! D\u011bti p\u0159inesly pozn\u00e1mku ze \u0161koly!<\/em> V\u0161echny tyto\ninformace pomalu. Ne najednou! A \u0161etrn\u011b!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

UU \u2013 u<\/strong>va\u0159eno, u<\/strong>klizeno:\nVy\u017eehlen\u00e1 ko\u0161ile a \u010dist\u00e9 kapesn\u00edky. A hlavn\u011b tepl\u00e1 plotna. To je z\u00e1klad\nrodinn\u00e9ho \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. A trouba. Ne mikrovlnn\u00e1, ale poctiv\u00e1. Tam, kde se upe\u010de\nsv\u00ed\u010dkov\u00e1 i b\u00e1bovka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SEZA \u2013 se<\/strong>x, kdy se mu za<\/strong>chce: Tady je m\u00ed\u010d jednozna\u010dn\u011b na \u017eensk\u00e9 stran\u011b h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b. Zat\u00edm co \u017eena m\u016f\u017ee v\u017edycky, mu\u017e jen sporadicky. Ze situace, kdy \u017eena m\u016f\u017ee, ale nechce, a mu\u017e chce, ale nem\u016f\u017ee, je nutno vyvodit z\u00e1v\u011br vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho respektu, tolerance a vych\u00e1zen\u00ed si vst\u0159\u00edc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00edce v rom\u00e1nu On na www.roman-on.cz<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Odli\u0161n\u00fdm o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu mu\u017ee a \u017eeny se zab\u00fdval n\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159edn\u00ed psycholog prof. Stanislav Kratochv\u00edl. Ty v\u00fdzna\u010dn\u00e9 pohlavn\u00ed rozd\u00edly pak shrnul do v\u00fdmluvn\u00fdch a vtipn\u00fdch zkratek, kter\u00e9 dnes interpretuje MUDr. Radim Uzel na na\u0161ich semin\u00e1\u0159\u00edch: Po \u010dem tou\u017e\u00ed ve vztahu \u017eeny? POPO \u2013 posed\u011bt a popov\u00eddat: To je pr\u00e1v\u011b ta nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chvilka, kdy\u017e se spole\u010dn\u011b…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ze-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=388"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":398,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388\/revisions\/398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radim.martynek.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}